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Friday, June 18, 2010

Mom's Birthday!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM...WE HOPE YOU HAVE THE BEST BIRTHDAY EVER!! All Our Love! Carrie & BJ

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

The Heat...and the Wind...

Oh yeah, now THIS is what we came for...no more of those sissy 100 degree days...anyone can handle that! This week has been a lovely collection of 120 degree days, added with strong winds of 30 mph yesterday and 25 mph the day before. It's only blowing at 10mph today, so it's a good day. I shouldn't complain, don't people pay big money for exfoliating treatments at spas? I am getting a complete sandblasting for FREE every day. However, unlike spas, my treatments are not actually doing good things to my hair or my face complexion...and it is always nice to get home at the end of the day and have to clean the sand out of your ears.

Now I know I seriously don't have a right to complain about this...and I'm really not complaining, I'm just trying to give y'all a visual so you can see what we are experiencing. But since I only deal with this when going to the bathroom or out to lunch I can't say much...it is my amazing husband that works out in it all day for 12 hours, 6 days a week. I don't know how he does it...I couldn't. And I wouldn't. We all know I am a Princess, and I would simply collapse in the fetal position - sweating, whining and crying until BJ told me I didn't have to work anymore. Thank the Good Lord in Heaven that I managed to get an office position over here. :-)

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Driving in Kuwait #4 - "When Does Stop Really Mean Stop"

Good morning! We enjoyed a lovely weekend full of 120 degree days...this is only the second 2-day weekend that BJ has had in the 4 months that we have been here, so we definitely enjoyed the time off together. Friday was a cookout with friends...it was unbelievably hot, but we had such a good time!! BJ may not have enjoyed it as much as I did, since he was in charge of the grill while I was inside in the air conditioning...but I sure did have fun! :-) Saturday was a low-key day just spent exploring a little in the morning and relaxing in the afternoon.

So today's driving blog is titled "When Does Stop Really Mean Stop?" There are a few rules that you learn quickly here when being handed the keys to a car. Actually, there are a LOT of rules that you learn quickly, otherwise you will be in an accident before leaving the parking lot.

But one of the most important is when you DO and when you DO NOT stop. You DO stop at all red lights!! Kuwaitis do not. It is illegal to run stop lights (as it is everywhere), and this is one law that the Kuwaitis actually enforce with vigor...if it is broken by a non-Kuwaiti. The fines are extremely expensive for this one...apparently they did start to notice the number of fatalities occuring due to the running of red lights. And you don't get a ticket that just requires paying the fine, you get the joy of going to court and getting yelled at by the Kuwaiti judge because you are endangering the lives of his countrymen. I pray to God I don't get a ticket, because it will be very hard for me to bite my tongue and not explain to him the endangering of lives his countrymen throw my way each and every day. I will then be given a tour of a Kuwaiti jail, with no exit, and BJ has promised that he will NOT be getting me out for fear of being thrown in because he is my spouse.

You DO NOT stop at any stop signs...EVER. If you do, chances are really high that you will get rear-ended, and this will also be your fault if you are a non-Kuwaiti. Now, it will also be your fault if you pull straight out without stopping at a stop sign and hit a Kuwaiti, so you are basically gambling on the lesser of 2 evils when debating this one. Trust me, chances are actually much higher that you will get hit stopping than if you just close your eyes and pull straight out. You will hear horns blaring, but you probably won't actually hit anyone. The best solution (at least in my opinion...this is what I do), is to TAP the brakes and do a calculated yield. So far, so good...but no promises that this will work all the time.

Again, good times on the roads of Kuwait!!

Monday, May 17, 2010

Driving in Kuwait #3 - The Directionally Challenged

This morning's lesson is titled "The Directionally Challenged". Now, there could be many meanings with a title like that, right? But here is where I am going with that...it is not uncommon (AT ALL) to be driving down the highway, and see a car driving AT you. This is because if it is easier/faster for a Kuwaiti to drive north in the south-bound lanes that is what they are going to do. No need to go up one exit, get off the exit and reenter going north...they simply drive the wrong way down the road. No kidding.

Another thing that adds to this fun is the fact that the sand that borders the highways is regularly used as a parking lot. Again, no need to go to the next exit, get off, turn right and come down to your house or apartment...simply pull off the highway (keep in mind this is a 120 km/hr - 75 mph highway) and park at the fence, walk through the hole in the fence to your house/apartment. At least a good 4 minutes saved, and never mind the fact that now you will be re-entering the highway doing 0 km/hr while the rest of traffic is clipping along at 120 km/hr...until you pull out in front of them and experience the joy of watching the mass chaos that will follow.

Now when they get back in their car, they often want to travel in the opposite direction of the side of the highway where they have parked. Therefore you now see the need to travel the wrong way down the highway (NOT in the sand, ON the actual highway). They also use this technique when they have dropped someone off and need to go in the opposite direction for a block or two...no reason to waste that precious 2 minutes to go up one block and turn around, simply drive where you need to go and let the others deal with it. Love it.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

P.P.S.

92 degrees at 4:30 this morning. Just sayn'...

Monday, May 10, 2010

P.S.

It was 109.4 degrees yesterday at noon...but who's counting?!?!

Driving in Kuwait #2 - Headlights are for Sissies

Good morning everyone! Yes, you read the title correctly..."HEADLIGHTS ARE FOR SISSIES"!!!

For reasons that completely escape me, Kuwaiti's rarely use their headlights. And I'm not talking about at 6 pm when it is dusk, I am talking about EVER. Middle of the night, 4:00 am, all times when it is pitch black...the good ones at least use their parking lights at those times, but not most.

So imagine if you will driving along the highway (where the speed limit is 120 kilometers per hour...which is between 74 and 75 mph...and most of us are doing about 130, which is 81 mph), when all of a sudden out of nowhere there is someone on your bumper flashing his bright lights at you. I swear, there is no logical reason to do this...therefore the only reason I can come up with for this behavior is that they enjoy seeing the look of horror and fear rush across my face as they catch my reflection in the rear view mirror. I mean seriously, if they would USE their headlights, people would see them coming at their death-wish rate of speed and get out of the way. But they seem to find this game of peek-a-boo much more entertaining, so we continue on with the fun that is known as "driving in Kuwait".

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Driving in Kuwait

Many of you have heard bits and pieces about the hazards of driving in Kuwait. I have said it once, twice, a thousand times...I am really afraid to drive here. Every daily decision that I make revolves around what time it is and where I would have to drive to do something. Do I want to shop? Hhhmmm, not bad enough to drive toward downtown to get to the mall. Am I hungry? Hhhmmm, not hungry enough to risk getting into a car to get food. (I'll explain the magic answer to solve that problem in the next post!)

Of course I am married to someone that has not driven since we arrived in Kuwait almost 3 months ago. He is a FAB-U-LOUS passenger seat driver though, so FRET NOT I have someone helping me. :-) Yep, that has been awesome...doesn't add to my stress at all while I am trying to avoid our death in a big firey crash that BJ is saying "um, you are going too fast", "why are you in this lane???", "you need to pass him...pass him on the right...do it now", etc.

BJ thinks the reason people drive so poorly over here is because of a lack of education, topped off with the fact that 90% of the true Kuwaiti's can't see very well. I think that is partly to blame (they don't have a driver's education program, and man do they need one...), but I also think it is compounded with a healthy dose of arrogance. Now the Kuwaiti's are only part of the problem. Honestly I have seen just as many stupid things done by the American's.

So, today's lesson is "THE EMERGENCY LANE IS ACTUALLY NOT FOR EMERGENCIES, IT IS JUST AN ADDITIONAL LANE". The Kuwaitis drive very, very, very fast. They come up on you before you ever see where in the world they came from. Typically they alert you to their presence by flashing their bright lights indicating that you need to move out of their lane. This makes many people angry...not me, I'm all too happy to move over and let them continue on with their death wish. If you are one of the people that get angry and decide to remain in their way, they will simply move into the emergency lane and pass you...leaving maybe 1/4 of an inch between your car and theirs, and cutting back in front of you as close as possible. If they can't get back over they are happy to continue in the new lane (formerly known as the emergency lane). They will do this for miles and miles, kicking up dirt and rocks while they cruise along at 90 mph in the emergency lane.

The real fun comes when there is actually a disabled vehicle in the emergency lane. BJ has witnessed a really spectacular accident where this happened and the car couldn't get stopped in time to avoid the crash. Good times.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

April's End

SWEET JESUS, IT IS 105.8 DEGREES!!! I just met BJ for lunch, and on my way back to the office it went up to 105.8. And it isn't even May yet. I just may not make it until August. And for those of you that know me well, you know the whining is just beginning.

Well we say good bye to April 2010 in Kuwait tomorrow...and hopefully the end of my working 12 hrs a day, 7 days a week. The contracts department submitted all of our extension proposals over the last 3 days (seriously an amazing accomplishment, and one I am quite proud to have been a part of), so we will be going back to our regular schedule starting today. :-) To celebrate, the company is taking the department out to a great steak restaurant tonight. I am so tired I just hope I can stay awake long enough to enjoy it...I am honestly too old to work 70+ hours a week.

I can't say the same for BJ, he continues to work at least 72 hours per week. And it will only get worse for him through the summer as the drawdown continues. Bless his heart, he works outside in this heat. I can't even make it to the trailer where the ladies restrooms are without whining, and he works out in it all day. With a port-a-john. He is definitely a better trooper about that part than I am.

HAPPY DAY, LOVE Y'ALL!!

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Easter in Kuwait

Well for the first time in our lives we had to work on Easter Sunday. Since we have to be at work at 0500 (5am for you non military type) we thought we would have a sunrise service of our own at our prespective job sites. However, sunrise never came because it was cloudy all day. We still managed to worship in our own way and we hope each one of you did too.

Easter time in Kuwait is funny because in all the stores you see baskets, bunnies, eggs and candy just like you would in the States. I guess you have businessmen all over the world chasing that dollar or KD in Kuwait's case. A quick lesson in KD's. A Kuwait Dinar is very strong against the US Dollar. It is basically 4-1 minus 20%! Confused? I am not, didn't take but a second to learn the money system and how to spend it. It takes 1,000 Fils to make a KD. Their coins (Fils) come in 10, 50 and 100. I was able to go to the store and pay with exact change for the first time, which was quite exciting.

The month of April has been busy for us. We are both working 12 hours per day and I am working 7 days per week, while BJ is slacking with 6 days per week. The sand storms have kicked up in strength by a notch. On the 17th we had a storm that went from a bright sunny sky to night time dark in 5 minutes. The wind was blowing very strong and a wall of sand just engulfed us. Yesterday we had another sand storm, but it was not nearly as bad. However, it did last a lot longer than the storm of the 17th.

The pictures of the storm will be posted so take a look at them and see what you think. Have a great week and we love you from the far side.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

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Saturday, 27 March 2010 - It was a very eventful week here in Kuwait. First of all, we have officially been here a month. :-) We are settled in, have met really wonderful people and both of us like our jobs very much. The CSA contract officially expires 31 March, so there has been a lot of uneasy feelings at work while people wonder what is going to happen to everyone next week. That was answered on Thursday, when we all received 6 month extension contracts...so we will definitely be here working for CSA until 30 September.

The other big event was a horrible accident that impacted BJ's department. The dog of an employee in BJ's area was hit by a car, and while he was tending to his dog the employee (Jesse) was hit by another car. It was a really bad accident, and Jesse is not expected to survive. That honestly is the biggest safety hazard about being here...the driving. Many of you have gotten emails from me about that, and now there is proof (terrible proof) that I wasn't exaggerating...the people over here can NOT drive, and they drive way, way too fast. I am infinitely more worried about my safety when I am in a vehicle than I am about terrorism or being in a war zone.

Other than that it was a regular ol' work week. We bought a grill, so today will be our first official Kuwaiti cook out!! And we tried the bar-b-que restaurant owned by a CSA employee that is from Texas...thank God it was really good, so we have our Jim N' Nicks substitute! Now if we could just find somewhere that makes good sweet tea we will be set.

Oh, before I sign off, let me describe what a "regular ol' work week" is over here. Kuwait has a mandatory 48 hour work week. So both BJ and I are up at 3:30 am. It is painful. BJ leaves about 4:05 because he starts work at 5 am...I leave at 4:45 and start at 6:00. It takes about 25 minutes to get to the base, and then another 30-45 minutes to get through security check points before we are on base. That is the worst part, but obviously it is a necessary evil. I get off at 5:00 and BJ gets off at 6:00, but because of traffic I only beat him home by about 20-30 minutes. Then I walk on the treadmill and he swims. We eat cereal for dinner most nights because we only have an hour before bedtime at this point, so we don't want anything heavy to eat. We fight over the computer for that hour trying to keep up with emails, then it is time for bed so we can do it all over again. Now I only work 5 days a week most weeks, but BJ does this 6 days a week so he has it worse than I do. It definitely makes for long days, which means we are pooped and sleeping like babies when it is bedtime!!

Tomorrow's Blog will feature our Friday Market adventures from last week...stay tuned!

Saturday, March 20, 2010

The First Month in Kuwait

Well, we have been so-so about keeping everyone updated on our progress in Kuwait. We are hoping that with the creation of this blog, we will have created a central database for updates on our activites and adventures in the Middle East. Also, HOPEFULLY we will be able to get more pictures to everyone!! Our internet connection at the apartment is soooo slow that we haven't been able to get more than one or two pictures to upload before the entire system crashes.

Some of this information will be repetitive for many of you, but we haven't been able to fill everyone in so bear with us. I will give a brief rundown of the first month in this posting. Then BJ and I will update periodically with what has happened that day or week.

THE BEGINNING: We headed out of Birmingham, Alabama on February 16th at 6:30 am. This meant we had to be at the airport by 5am. Being the true procrastinator that I am (have always been...probably will always be), I had only slept 3 hours in the previous 72 hours before the trip to the airport. I had also still not finished packing, which left my wonderful parents with a beautiful home littered with my piles of crap everywhere. I know, I don't know why they didn't kill me a long time ago either.

We arrived safe and sound in Kuwait at 6pm (Kuwait time) the 17th. We were taken to a hotel that night, then picked up and taken to our new home the next morning. We were now in our new home where we don't speak the language, don't have a car, don't know exactly where we are, etc. So we pretty much stuck close to home until we were picked up for orientation three days later.

Orientation lasted 3 days...our company does a really good job of trying to make the transition to life in the Middle East as easy as possible. On the 4th day we finally actually went to the army base (camp actually, but for ease of reference I will continue to call it a base...) for the first time. We work in a very large, tan, sandy desert environment.

We are pretty settled in now...I have replaced the sheets and comforter that we are provided with better thread-count Egyptian sheets and a down comforter, so all is well in the world. The rest of the apartment is great. We are located in an area with lots of restaurants close by, and we have an amazing view of the Persian Gulf.

We work a lot, so most of our time is spent getting ready for work, getting to work, being at work, and coming home from work. We are only awake for 1 1/2 to 2 hours each night, so we are doing a better job of time management with the limited amount of time that we have here.

Our off days are spent exploring the offerings of Kuwait...the first two weekends we were fortunate to have someone (wonderful, amazing people) that took us around and showed us the layout of the city and where the major attractions were. The next weekend we checked out the Friday Market (stay tuned to future Posts for the description of the Friday Market), and last weekend we drove out to the desert to take pictures of the camels. They are almost as tame as dogs here, they will run right up to your car and stick their heads inside if you aren't careful!!

It is starting to get hot already. We have had a week of 100+ temperatures...and it isn't even April yet! I will admit I am NOT going to get used to the heat here, so just know in advance that there will be plenty of whining in future Blog updates.

Take Care...more to come!!! We miss everyone, but we are doing well in our new home!!